Join us this Sunday to talk about «Ms Manners for alternative sexualities — how to be mindful while cruising or negotiating». We have several individuals who will help facilitate this conversation and share their experiences across a variety of venues and events.
What are the unwritten rules? Red Flags, Negotiate, Consent, No means No! Except sometimes maybe not?
First time at a leather or kink event? Not sure how to feel, what to say, how to act? So many questions!
How do you deal with physical contact? Times when there is more friendly touching than you are used to or comfortable with? Or how do you respond without inviting more?
Most of us have the basic skills to cruise the bars. Sure, THAT we can handle. It so often seems like not picking them up is the hard part. How do you put on the brakes without acting like a jerk?
How do you make friends without looking like you're cruising?
What if you would love to meet a few people you can just hang out with and you’d rather not just screw your way into a social circle. What's the signal for «Hey let's talk more and maybe hang out sometime but I don't want to sleep with you»?
What if you want to just simply get to know someone better? Do you get their phone number? Buy them dinner? Is that ethical? Are you crossing a line? Not crossing far enough?
We will be in the Barracks and if you want to participate in the NLA-C business meeting that meeting will occur from 1pm — 2pm.